16 Sex Tricks Every Woman Should Try Before Her 40th Birthday


You’ve heard all about your G zone, but have you actually tried to find it? For most women, this controversial pleasure zone lies about two inches inside the vagina on top of the vaginal wall, says Gary Brown, Ph.D., a licensed psychotherapist in Los Angeles. Apply lubricant to one or two fingers, then hunt for an area that’s a bit spongy and more sensitive to stimulation. “The exact location differs. So patience is important,” says Brown. Once you think you’ve hit the spot, make a gentle “come here” motion with your fingers. “Experiment with location, pressure, and speed of your fingers. Notice what your body is saying,” says Brown. “But remember, not every woman experiences orgasm in the same way, if at all, in this area,” he adds. So just enjoy the exploration.