I had a smashing ‘pay it forward’ moment, that I’d like to share with you.

When we was during my lowest low, bald and feeling horrible, we dragged myself to a mall to find some scarves to cover my bald head.  

In my cost range, all was so ho-hum.  Nothing beautiful…like me (ha!)  I bought dual wigs, though they were so tingling and felt like we was wearing a showering cap.

Scarves were a approach we wanted to go.  (Long approach around to pity my compensate it brazen moment).  Anyway, when we was during my lowest low, looking during my inexpensive scarves, an angel appeared.

I was introduced to a co-survivor, Hollye, by a mutual crony who suspicion we would have a lot in common.  Hollye was beautiful and really chic.  She pronounced she never felt gentle in a wig and always wore scarves.  She offering to loan her scarves to me.  

When we perceived them in a mail, we got crow bumps.  They were unusual engineer scarves all in shining colors and designs.

This might sound stupid to some of you, though these scarves got me by that terrible and joyless bald period.

Flash forward…Hollye is in town.  We had lunch, and we told her we would dry purify her scarves and get them behind to her this week. we went home and began to accumulate a scarves.

Out of a blue, each tension we could presumably have about this tour by cancer strike me head-on, and we dissolved.  It took me right behind to being bald, impossibly weak, scared, vexed and full of anger. It was roughly as if a scarves had taken on my DNA and were holding on to my feelings.  I was blissful to be losing a scarves, nonetheless ravaged and unhappy to give behind a romantic coverings that done me feel secure during treatment.

I don’t consider Hollye will each know how recovering her act of affability was, and how in a tiny approach it saved me.  It was pristine adore from a really pristine heart.  I wish in some tiny approach we am profitable it brazen with my foundation, though zero will ever have a impact of a one-to-one act of kindness.  

Wouldn’t it be good if we all did that each day in some tiny way?

Noreen Fraser is vital with Stage IV metastatic breast cancer. She is a Founder and CEO of a Noreen Fraser Foundation, a 501(c)(3) non-profit classification dedicated to appropriation groundbreaking women’s cancer research. To stay in hold with Noreen, greatfully ‘LIKE’ The Noreen Fraser Foundation on Facebook and follow her on Twitter.  Noreen can be contacted around email during [email protected].