{"id":72314,"date":"2017-03-28T14:24:53","date_gmt":"2017-03-28T14:24:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/news\/i-was-told-my-baby-would-die-at-birth\/"},"modified":"2017-03-28T14:24:53","modified_gmt":"2017-03-28T14:24:53","slug":"i-was-told-my-baby-would-die-at-birth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/news\/i-was-told-my-baby-would-die-at-birth\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018I was told my baby would die at birth\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018The baby\u2019s alive!\u2019 the midwife gasped, calling for urgent help. Sandra Notman was stunned \u2014 this wasn\u2019t what she\u2019d expected.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">At seven months pregnant, Sandra had been told her baby girl was so sick she\u2019d be stillborn, or die shortly after birth.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Her consultant had advised a termination, injecting the baby in the womb; she\u2019d then be delivered by caesarean.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Sandra had refused. She didn\u2019t think her child would survive \u2014 the medical evidence was stacked against it \u2014 but following her heart, she\u2019d elected for a natural birth in the hope of spending a few precious moments with her baby before she died.<\/p>\n<p>      <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-585accdcc9ead8d6\" src=\"image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" height=\"951\" width=\"634\" alt=\"At seven months pregnant, Sandra Notman (right) had been told her baby girl Rachel (left) was so sick she'd be stillborn, or die shortly after birth\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><br \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-585accdcc9ead8d6\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2017\/03\/27\/20\/3EAF86B700000578-0-image-a-1_1490644271230.jpg\" height=\"951\" width=\"634\" alt=\"At seven months pregnant, Sandra Notman (right) had been told her baby girl Rachel (left) was so sick she'd be stillborn, or die shortly after birth\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">At seven months pregnant, Sandra Notman (right) had been told her baby girl Rachel (left) was so sick she\u2019d be stillborn, or die shortly after birth<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Understandably, she didn\u2019t want the pregnancy to go to full term, so asked if she could be induced two months early. Her consultant agreed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Sandra\u2019s husband Andrew was by her side, and a priest waited to carry out a bedside baptism \u2014 naming the child Rachel.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Sandra and Andrew had also booked a funeral, ordered a tiny coffin and chosen a pretty dress in which to bury their daughter.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Yet tiny Rachel, weighing little over 2lb, was unexpectedly born alive, and was rushed into special care.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Her survival \u2014 against the odds and the predictions of well-intentioned doctors \u2014 is a \u2018sober warning bell\u2019, as one expert put it, reminding medics to consider carefully their advice in such cases.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Sandra, a former secretary, became pregnant with Rachel in 1991. She was 31, and Andrew, a company treasurer, was 30.\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul class=\"rotator-panels link-bogr1 linkro-ccox\">\n<li>\n<p>          <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2017\/03\/27\/14\/3EAB61B800000578-0-image-m-52_1490621290658.jpg\" width=\"62\" height=\"60\" \/><span>Flesh-eating parasite turns mother-of-two into a recluse:\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p>          <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2017\/03\/24\/23\/3E9AE84100000578-0-image-a-50_1490397801427.jpg\" width=\"62\" height=\"60\" \/><span>Beware of warmed up food: Doctors reveal the most dangerous\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p>          <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2017\/03\/27\/16\/3EAEA89A00000578-0-image-a-24_1490627584225.jpg\" width=\"62\" height=\"60\" \/><span>No more desperate need for the john: Doctors develop new\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p>          <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2017\/03\/27\/16\/3EAEA94F00000578-0-image-a-79_1490626962553.jpg\" width=\"62\" height=\"60\" \/><span>Why vegan mothers are more likely to have children who\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">They already had two-year-old, Rebecca, and were keen for a second child.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">But at her ten-week scan, doctors at her local hospital in Maidstone, Kent, spotted abnormalities, and she was referred to King\u2019s College Hospital, London.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">There, scans confirmed that Sandra\u2019s unborn child had polycystic kidney disease (PKD), an inherited condition that causes numerous cysts in the kidneys and can lead to renal failure.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Although PKD is not always fatal in babies, Sandra\u2019s consultant believed in her case it would be.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018I\u2019ll never forget the moment I was told my baby would die at birth,\u2019 Sandra says. \u2018I burst into tears. Andrew was devastated.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018I\u2019m Catholic, and I wanted to have my baby naturally and to have her baptised, even if she lived for just a few minutes.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>      <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-3649cf6a2728c339\" src=\"image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" height=\"423\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Tiny Rachel, weighing little over 2lb, was unexpectedly born alive and rushed into special care. Her mother Sandra (right) was advised to abort the pregnancy while she was still in the womb\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><br \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-3649cf6a2728c339\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2017\/03\/27\/20\/3EAF86BF00000578-0-image-m-3_1490644291945.jpg\" height=\"423\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Tiny Rachel, weighing little over 2lb, was unexpectedly born alive and rushed into special care. Her mother Sandra (right) was advised to abort the pregnancy while she was still in the womb\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Tiny Rachel, weighing little over 2lb, was unexpectedly born alive and rushed into special care. Her mother Sandra (right) was advised to abort the pregnancy while she was still in the womb<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Sandra gave birth at Maidstone Hospital on October 25, 1991.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018Me and Andrew were crying, my mum was crying, too, and all the staff were dreadfully upset.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018The baby was breech and they needed to use forceps. The consultant said I should take any pain relief available, given the baby was not expected to survive.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018So I was given morphine, which is not normally administered during labour. I wanted the labour to end but also didn\u2019t, as this would mean the death of our baby.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018After the delivery, when the midwife said our daughter wasn\u2019t dying, it was surreal. I was so thankful I\u2019d not agreed to have the injection that would have ended my baby\u2019s life.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Rachel was quickly transferred to Guy\u2019s Hospital in London, a specialist kidney centre.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Sandra, now 56, recalls: \u2018Rachel was tiny. She looked like a fragile doll. It was very stressful, but it felt like a miracle.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>      <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-e454f19744c97c2c\" src=\"image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" height=\"436\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Sandra (left) gave birth at Maidstone Hospital on October 25, 1991.\u00a0'Me and Andrew were crying, my mum was crying, too, and all the staff were dreadfully upset,' she says\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><br \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-e454f19744c97c2c\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2017\/03\/27\/21\/3EAF7D4300000578-4354470-image-a-12_1490647724188.jpg\" height=\"436\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Sandra (left) gave birth at Maidstone Hospital on October 25, 1991.\u00a0'Me and Andrew were crying, my mum was crying, too, and all the staff were dreadfully upset,' she says\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Sandra (left) gave birth at Maidstone Hospital on October 25, 1991.\u00a0\u2018Me and Andrew were crying, my mum was crying, too, and all the staff were dreadfully upset,\u2019 she says<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Rachel lapsed into a coma, with scans showing a black cloud on her brain. Doctors said this pointed to potential brain damage due to a lack of oxygen at birth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Sandra spent weeks watching over Rachel as she lay in an incubator. Brain scans repeatedly showed no activity.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">After six weeks, doctors agreed to perform one last scan before switching off the life support.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018Andrew and I went to the hospital prepared to say a final goodbye to Rachel,\u2019 says Sandra.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018I was sobbing uncontrollably. But on arrival, a female doctor was crying, saying the \u2018black cloud\u2019 on Rachel\u2019s brain had gone. She\u2019d shown signs of life \u2014 making tiny movements.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018That day was when life began again. For all of us.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>      <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-5083a4971a4ad0a8\" src=\"image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" height=\"425\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Every time Rachel (pictured) came into hospital for her first five yers, the doctors said that she would be lucky to get another year\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><br \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-5083a4971a4ad0a8\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2017\/03\/27\/21\/3EAF7D3B00000578-4354470-image-a-15_1490647785572.jpg\" height=\"425\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Every time Rachel (pictured) came into hospital for her first five yers, the doctors said that she would be lucky to get another year\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Every time Rachel (pictured) came into hospital for her first five yers, the doctors said that she would be lucky to get another year<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Rachel started feeding via a drip, and slowly gained weight. After a few weeks, her parents were allowed to take her home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">At three months, Rachel still weighed only 7lb. \u2018Her face was so small, her blue eyes looked really big,\u2019 says Sandra. \u2018One doctor said: \u2018You\u2019ll be lucky to get another year.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018He said that every year for the first five years of Rachel\u2019s life.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">There are two types of PKD, both caused by a faulty gene. Rachel had the rarer, more life-threatening form, called Autosomal Recessive Polycystic Kidney Disease (ARPKD), with only 120 identified patients in the UK.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">One in three babies with ARPKD dies soon after birth, and renal failure occurs in more than 50 per cent of children within ten years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Remarkably, two decades later, Rachel is fit and well. Now 25, with a degree in fashion textiles, she lives in West Malling, Kent, with her parents and is engaged to electrician Lee Lockyer, 26.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Her story highlights the difficult decisions parents-to-be can face about whether to abort longed-for babies because of concerns that they will be born with life-threatening disorders.<\/p>\n<p>      <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-39d08a78946419e\" src=\"image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" height=\"899\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Remarkably, two decades later, Rachel (pictured) is fit and well. Now 25, with a degree in fashion textiles, she lives in West Malling, Kent\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><br \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-39d08a78946419e\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2017\/03\/27\/21\/3EAF86C300000578-4354470-image-a-19_1490647834130.jpg\" height=\"899\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Remarkably, two decades later, Rachel (pictured) is fit and well. Now 25, with a degree in fashion textiles, she lives in West Malling, Kent\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Remarkably, two decades later, Rachel (pictured) is fit and well. Now 25, with a degree in fashion textiles, she lives in West Malling, Kent<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Of the 185,824 abortions carried out in England and Wales in 2015, 3,218 \u2014 two per cent \u2014 were performed under \u2018ground E\u2019, due to a risk the child would be born \u2018seriously handicapped\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018Doctors have a duty to explain all the facts and options,\u2019 says Genevieve Edwards, director of policy at Marie Stopes UK, Britain\u2019s biggest abortion provider.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018This story shows you can never be 100 per cent certain how a pregnancy will turn out.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Guidelines from the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists state that those caring for a woman facing possible termination due to foetal abnormality must adopt a \u2018non-directive, non-judgmental and supportive approach\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Dr Trevor Stammers, a senior lecturer in bioethics at St Mary\u2019s University in London, explains: \u2018The options should be spelled out clearly, including palliative care for a live birth.\u2019\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">But he adds: \u2018I think the assumption abortion is the best, or even the only sensible option, has increased.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018There\u2019s a lot of pressure on doctors dealing with difficult decisions, not least because of anxiety about litigation if they give the \u2018wrong\u2019 guidance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018Every consultant is influenced by their own view on an acceptable quality of life.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Despite her survival, things have been far from easy for Rachel. The cysts caused her kidneys and liver to become increasingly scarred (and would eventually cause her kidneys to fail).\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Her spleen became enlarged, making her stomach swell so much she looked pregnant for much of her childhood.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018My stomach was permanently swollen, and it was hard for other kids to understand what was wrong with me, or to remember to be careful around me,\u2019 she says.<\/p>\n<p>      <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-3927edf3a55ec9df\" src=\"image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" height=\"423\" width=\"634\" alt=\"At 15, Rachel's kidneys began to fail and she started dialysis (home system shown above) three times a week. She was also put on the donor organ waiting list\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><br \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-3927edf3a55ec9df\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2017\/03\/27\/21\/3EAFB58700000578-0-At_15_Rachel_s_kidneys_began_to_fail_and_she_started_dialysis_ho-a-10_1490645032411.jpg\" height=\"423\" width=\"634\" alt=\"At 15, Rachel's kidneys began to fail and she started dialysis (home system shown above) three times a week. She was also put on the donor organ waiting list\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">At 15, Rachel\u2019s kidneys began to fail and she started dialysis (home system shown above) three times a week. She was also put on the donor organ waiting list<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Her blood didn\u2019t clot normally, and she suffered from hypertension, which dilated the veins in her organs so they needed cauterising in hospital once or twice a year to stop internal bleeding.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Feeling unwell was the norm. Yet, in many ways, life continued. Rachel learned to dance, and took part in shows. And as medicine and research into PKD improved, so did Rachel\u2019s prognosis.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">At 15, her kidneys began to fail and she started dialysis three times a week. She was also put on the donor organ waiting list for a rare liver and kidney transplant.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018I hated it,\u2019 she says. \u2018I wanted to be normal. At my lowest ebb I told Mum I wanted to die because my life was so terrible. I would have gone under without my family there to support me.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">In December 2009, after more than two years on the transplant list, Rachel got the call. \u2018Mum and Dad were convinced it would work but I was terrified,\u2019 she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">A week after the operation, Rachel\u2019s body started to reject the new liver and Sandra and Andrew were told \u2014 again \u2014 to say goodbye to their daughter.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">But Rachel pulled through. Then her body started to reject the kidneys \u2014 but once again she pulled through. Two months later, she left hospital.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018I hope by telling my story we give others hope,\u2019 she says. \u2018I\u2019m living proof that where there is life, there is hope. Always.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\"><span class=\"mol-style-bold\">To join the NHS Organ Donor Register, visit organdonation.nhs.uk\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018The baby\u2019s alive!\u2019 the midwife gasped, calling for urgent help. Sandra Notman was stunned \u2014 this wasn\u2019t what she\u2019d expected. At seven months pregnant, Sandra had been told her baby girl was so sick she\u2019d be stillborn, or die shortly after birth.\u00a0 Her consultant had advised a termination, injecting the baby in the womb; she\u2019d [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-72314","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72314","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=72314"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72314\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=72314"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=72314"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=72314"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}