HMN 2025: Inadvertent fantasy and unable to achieve

The weaker the ability to cope with the world, the stronger your desire for something that cannot be achieved.

The seriousness of mental health tends to have a positive correlation with the trend of fantasy. The more time we spend more time in imagination, the more we Married fantasy, This is a country that is expressed as a strong preference for the country, as opposed to the obsession with retirement from idealization, responsibility and fear. Sometimes this illusion involves the vision of unlimited success. In other cases, the cruelty of others or more important is the vision of the ideal romantic partner to seek a dreamer from self -infected cruelty.

The hope of a structure to be promoted in heaven has a positive correlation with chronic dissatisfaction with many people. This means that no matter what and how much you have, you will never feel good enough. Therefore, the rescued prejudice often does not have relationships and does so for various reasons. The most obvious reason is that it tends to feel when other partners do not come or speak or have a long -term effect. Inevitably, the dream prices return to sorrow and fantasy.

The most obvious is the self -esteem of the dreamer. Feeling chronically inappropriate, they tend to get rid of the flaws with their partners and discover defects. I am not ugly and incompetent or unstable. It is for you to let you go or scare you. A dream that tends to distract yourself, uses fantasy and projections equally.

Therefore, when they devalued their partners, they set their eyesight to someone in a fierce faith in the ability to bless them. Idealization and evaluation patterns often “moving to another city” “If you find more attractive partners,” Will.

Overall, our trend as society and species is to establish an alliance to solve our personal problems. We change, fix and replace part of the situation. But symptoms often remain for chronic unhappy people who are willing to sacrifice and give up. Some are looking for a reason to leave, armed with rationalization and unfair criticism while maintaining the boundaries. Their joy is that if you can call them, it is only in dreaming of it.

Abuse should never be minimized, but there is a lot of undesirable aspects in the relationship, and most of them seem to be able to withstand. Dream prices require two incompatible things in essence. They want to be saved. In other words, romantic partners support them every two seconds every day, but maintain their appearance (ie very desirable) social status. At the same time, they want to feel superior to their partners.

Mixture of security and praise, predictability and envy. I love you and hate you. Partners cannot win. What is unknown to the dreamer is to silence the inner critics.

Nancy McWilliams wrote: The choice … Responsibility is related to the normal level of guilt and numerical levels. “

The unacceptable dream mall rushes with fantasy, cruelty, avoidance and action. As our patients point out the delusions of many unfair comparisons, they can be grateful for their lives as they can endure their defects better. In turn, thanks can be related to strong desire for equality, and we believe and believe in zero islands. At some stage, the dream mall should deal with the reality that they cannot feel superior to their partners at once. (And because they tend to personalize rejection, they can actually learn what they actually follow, the world where you can have something else with others, and you don’t have to feel stabbing again.)

But this process must begin with the calculation of the dream of a dreamer. Trauma, neglect or other related experiences should be considered. Similarly, the dream malls must recognize how to not manage the standards, pain of themselves and others, and defense plays an important role in misery. They must admit that pushing others actually work.