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Netmums member KilgoreT asked the question: ‘Do women actually care if their partner has a small willy?’<\/p>\n
Netmums member KilgoreT took to the forum to ask: ‘Do women actually care if their partner has a small willy?’<\/p>\n
She then jokingly posted below: ‘Asking for a friend.’<\/p>\n
The answers soon came pouring in and\u00a0most admitted that it wasn’t the size that mattered – it was what you did with it.\u00a0<\/p>\n
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\n <\/a>\n <\/li>\n<\/ul>\nOthers, however, came at the question from another angle, commenting on the fact that sometimes members could be too big.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
JanQ replied to the thread and said that she only cares about the penis being small when the sex is rubbish.\u00a0<\/p>\n
She said: ‘I really do believe it’s what you do with it and all the emotional stuff that goes with it.’<\/p>\n
Another contributor made a good point and asked: ‘How small is small?\u00a0What one person considers small someone else may consider average or even big!<\/p>\n
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<\/p>\nThere were lots of replies on the forum and somebody asked for specifics, saying: ‘How small is small?’\u00a0<\/p>\n
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‘I think it’s all down to the individual couple.’\u00a0<\/p>\n
Jemma G agreed, saying: ‘Size doesn’t matter it’s how it’s used.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘I have had ex’s (sic) with large ones and sex was c****y.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘One of my ex’s (sic)had a dinky one and omg sex was fab lol suppose it all depends on the couple and the individuals.’<\/p>\n
Deciding to be more specific about her desires, Angela simply said: ‘Anything that is 5-7 inches is perfect.’\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
Proving that it isn’t just about size, Elizabeth M pointed out: ‘If the man is particularly worried about his size then make an effort to get better at ‘other areas’.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘As long as both partners are satisfied at the end I don’t think it matters.’<\/p>\n
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<\/p>\nOthers said that it wasn’t all about size and that it mostly depended on what you could do with it<\/p>\n
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Agreeing, Donna C wrote that she thinks women generally appreciate something more than penetration.<\/p>\n
She declared: ‘Just sticking it in doesn’t cut it.\u00a0I’ve slept with men on either end of the spectrum of penile length.<\/p>\n
‘The smallest left me wondering whether he was actually inside.\u00a0The largest ended up thrusting me off the side of the bed.<\/p>\n
‘Neither were particularly satisfying.’<\/p>\n
Jasmine instead admitted that size does, in fact, matter to her.<\/p>\n
She says: ‘I’m not a shallow person, well at least I hope I’m not.<\/p>\n
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<\/p>\nOne marriage came to an end because despite them looking past the fact that he had a small penis, the sex was ‘awful’ and he couldn’t stay aroused<\/p>\n
\u00a0‘My ex had a small penis and I looked past it but the sex was so awful and he couldn’t keep it up, and we eventually stopped having sex and our marriage eventually came to an end.<\/p>\n
‘My current partner is quite large and our sex life is amazing.<\/p>\n
‘When I first seen it I was scared of it going in so it if was any bigger I don’t think I could have because it would have hurt.’\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
Another contributor agreed, saying: ‘Yes I do care.’<\/p>\n
They then put across their argument: ‘If you gave most straight men a choice between small or big boobs though, I think most would pick big?!\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘So goes both ways, although too big isn’t good.’\u00a0<\/p>\n
The comments then began to get personal between Netmums members, with Sarah replying to Danielle saying: ‘Hey leave us ladies with small boobies alone! I’ve never had any complaints about mine’.<\/p>\n
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<\/p>\nPeople soon began comparing penis sizes to the size of women’s breast and they became distracted<\/p>\n
Continuing the conversation about breasts, Jasmine said: ”Too big isn’t good.”\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘I think that’s how my other half feels about my breasts.<\/p>\n
‘I know I’d be disgusted about a ridiculously huge penis and I wouldn’t want it near me.<\/p>\n
‘But in all honesty I think the main thing is if you and your partner can please each other size preference doesn’t always matter.’<\/p>\n
Another contributor to the thread who identified as intersex introduced a new angle on the subject.\u00a0<\/p>\n
The person said: ‘I have to admit to having a ‘micro penis’, am intersex, and avoided the chop as infant as I looked normal male… and the medical profession want to fix intersex infants, normally meaning castration and raising child as female.<\/p>\n
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<\/p>\nGemma broke down the argument and said that ultimately, size doesn’t matter as long as ‘techniques are used’<\/p>\n
‘I avoided further medical intervention at age 9, at which point did start to live as female, and age 16 and even 19… it is still defined as a micro penis,… i.e. too small to penetrate a female, and unable to satisfy the needs of a female sexually. – that is the medical terms! no larger than an enlarged clitoris.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘BUT i have fathered children, and i have a female partner, .. yes it increased in size after SYNTHETIC testosterone medicaation for 10 yrs between age 19 and 29…. our sex life is not conventional, my penis is small…<\/p>\n
‘I accept that many women enjoy the normal size penis, and it has always been a issue i have had to deal with .. as a female I did not enjoy penetrative sex with a male.. my vagina has been “opened” surgically .. my labia had fused before birth, and i had to dilate to get the muscles to adapt… so a large penis was painful…’<\/p>\n
Finally, Gemma waded into the debate and broke down her answer into simple terms, saying: ‘I’ve had two partners who were reasonably small… One worked with it and it never bothered me.<\/p>\n
‘One didn’t and our sex life wasn’t great!<\/p>\n
‘I did have an ex who had a really large one though and our sex life was awful. He just didn’t make an effort.’<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
It’s one of the biggest questions among women, and a source of anxiety for men.\u00a0 Does penis size matter?\u00a0\u00a0 A woman ventured to ask the question on Netmums\u00a0– and was met with a variety of attitudes towards accepting partner’s shortcomings. Scroll down for video\u00a0 Netmums member KilgoreT asked the question: ‘Do women actually care if Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-121279","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/i\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/121279","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/i\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/i\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/i\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/i\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=121279"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/i\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/121279\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/i\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=121279"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/i\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=121279"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/i\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=121279"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}