{"id":50638,"date":"2016-10-11T12:51:03","date_gmt":"2016-10-11T12:51:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/news\/netmums-users-debate-penis-size-in-a-very-frank-chat\/"},"modified":"2016-10-11T12:51:03","modified_gmt":"2016-10-11T12:51:03","slug":"netmums-users-debate-penis-size-in-a-very-frank-chat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/healthmedicinet.com\/news\/netmums-users-debate-penis-size-in-a-very-frank-chat\/","title":{"rendered":"NetMums users debate penis size in a very frank chat"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">It\u2019s one of the biggest questions among women, and a source of anxiety for men.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Does penis size matter?\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">A woman ventured to ask the question on Netmums\u00a0\u2013 and was met with a variety of attitudes towards accepting partner\u2019s shortcomings.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\"><span class=\"mol-style-bold\">Scroll down for video\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-aad5cc1b51bd8a3d\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/15\/3948304700000578-3825530-image-a-28_1476108711589.jpg\" height=\"423\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Netmums member KilgoreT asked the question: 'Do women actually care if their partner has a small willy?'\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Netmums member KilgoreT asked the question: \u2018Do women actually care if their partner has a small willy?\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Netmums member KilgoreT took to the forum to ask: \u2018Do women actually care if their partner has a small willy?\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She then jokingly posted below: \u2018Asking for a friend.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The answers soon came pouring in and\u00a0most admitted that it wasn\u2019t the size that mattered \u2013 it was what you did with it.\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul class=\"rotator-panels link-bogr1 linkro-ccox\">\n<li>\n<p>          <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/04\/22\/391AA6BA00000578-0-image-a-48_1475615525903.jpg\" width=\"62\" height=\"60\" \/><span>\u2018You know you\u2019re talking to yourself, right?\u2019 Mother answers\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p>          <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/10\/3942A3C800000578-0-image-m-34_1476090486998.jpg\" width=\"62\" height=\"60\" \/><span>The cutest pumpkin in the patch! Seven-month-old Prince\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Others, however, came at the question from another angle, commenting on the fact that sometimes members could be too big.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">JanQ replied to the thread and said that she only cares about the penis being small when the sex is rubbish.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She said: \u2018I really do believe it\u2019s what you do with it and all the emotional stuff that goes with it.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Another contributor made a good point and asked: \u2018How small is small?\u00a0What one person considers small someone else may consider average or even big!<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-fdd4b64ff8fa80ad\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/14\/392B617C00000578-3825530-image-a-14_1476106595588.jpg\" height=\"132\" width=\"634\" alt=\"\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-71ca89484ad32f6\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/14\/392B618700000578-3825530-image-a-15_1476106603171.jpg\" height=\"110\" width=\"634\" alt=\"\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-37dcaaf914c46d22\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/14\/392B618C00000578-3825530-image-a-16_1476106607421.jpg\" height=\"159\" width=\"634\" alt=\"\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-1c0c39c42e713505\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/15\/394886F900000578-3825530-image-a-31_1476110445998.jpg\" height=\"102\" width=\"634\" alt=\"\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-8a5d0f9b89dac5f\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/14\/392B619400000578-3825530-image-a-18_1476106616858.jpg\" height=\"90\" width=\"634\" alt=\"There were lots of replies on the forum and somebody asked for specifics, saying: 'How small is small?'\u00a0\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">There were lots of replies on the forum and somebody asked for specifics, saying: \u2018How small is small?\u2019\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018I think it\u2019s all down to the individual couple.\u2019\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Jemma G agreed, saying: \u2018Size doesn\u2019t matter it\u2019s how it\u2019s used.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018I have had ex\u2019s (sic) with large ones and sex was c****y.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018One of my ex\u2019s (sic)had a dinky one and omg sex was fab lol suppose it all depends on the couple and the individuals.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Deciding to be more specific about her desires, Angela simply said: \u2018Anything that is 5-7 inches is perfect.\u2019\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Proving that it isn\u2019t just about size, Elizabeth M pointed out: \u2018If the man is particularly worried about his size then make an effort to get better at \u2018other areas\u2019.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018As long as both partners are satisfied at the end I don\u2019t think it matters.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-bd277dc021dc6be7\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/15\/3948301E00000578-3825530-image-a-29_1476108722869.jpg\" height=\"423\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Others said that it wasn't all about size and that it mostly depended on what you could do with it\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Others said that it wasn\u2019t all about size and that it mostly depended on what you could do with it<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Agreeing, Donna C wrote that she thinks women generally appreciate something more than penetration.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She declared: \u2018Just sticking it in doesn\u2019t cut it.\u00a0I\u2019ve slept with men on either end of the spectrum of penile length.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018The smallest left me wondering whether he was actually inside.\u00a0The largest ended up thrusting me off the side of the bed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018Neither were particularly satisfying.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Jasmine instead admitted that size does, in fact, matter to her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She says: \u2018I\u2019m not a shallow person, well at least I hope I\u2019m not.<\/p>\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-e56ad122c3bd8b1d\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/14\/392B619D00000578-3825530-image-a-19_1476106621594.jpg\" height=\"116\" width=\"634\" alt=\"\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-11cc5e205e457126\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/14\/392B61A700000578-3825530-image-a-20_1476106627394.jpg\" height=\"213\" width=\"634\" alt=\"\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-59a95d96b88dc6b8\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/14\/392B61A100000578-3825530-image-a-22_1476106637320.jpg\" height=\"183\" width=\"634\" alt=\"One marriage came to an end because despite them looking past the fact that he had a small penis, the sex was 'awful' and he couldn't stay aroused\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">One marriage came to an end because despite them looking past the fact that he had a small penis, the sex was \u2018awful\u2019 and he couldn\u2019t stay aroused<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u00a0\u2018My ex had a small penis and I looked past it but the sex was so awful and he couldn\u2019t keep it up, and we eventually stopped having sex and our marriage eventually came to an end.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018My current partner is quite large and our sex life is amazing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018When I first seen it I was scared of it going in so it if was any bigger I don\u2019t think I could have because it would have hurt.\u2019\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Another contributor agreed, saying: \u2018Yes I do care.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">They then put across their argument: \u2018If you gave most straight men a choice between small or big boobs though, I think most would pick big?!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018So goes both ways, although too big isn\u2019t good.\u2019\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The comments then began to get personal between Netmums members, with Sarah replying to Danielle saying: \u2018Hey leave us ladies with small boobies alone! I\u2019ve never had any complaints about mine\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-9c695ffb2a352a0d\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/14\/392B61AE00000578-3825530-image-a-21_1476106632463.jpg\" height=\"106\" width=\"634\" alt=\"\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-45e6cc4dcd2d55a0\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/14\/392B61B700000578-3825530-image-a-23_1476106641676.jpg\" height=\"183\" width=\"634\" alt=\"\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-3dfe896ea5e4641\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/14\/392B61D000000578-3825530-image-a-25_1476106649513.jpg\" height=\"150\" width=\"634\" alt=\"People soon began comparing penis sizes to the size of women's breast and they became distracted\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">People soon began comparing penis sizes to the size of women\u2019s breast and they became distracted<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Continuing the conversation about breasts, Jasmine said: \u201dToo big isn\u2019t good.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018I think that\u2019s how my other half feels about my breasts.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018I know I\u2019d be disgusted about a ridiculously huge penis and I wouldn\u2019t want it near me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018But in all honesty I think the main thing is if you and your partner can please each other size preference doesn\u2019t always matter.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Another contributor to the thread who identified as intersex introduced a new angle on the subject.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The person said: \u2018I have to admit to having a \u2018micro penis\u2019, am intersex, and avoided the chop as infant as I looked normal male\u2026 and the medical profession want to fix intersex infants, normally meaning castration and raising child as female.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-f289710876f88130\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/15\/392B61C000000578-3825530-image-a-35_1476110518550.jpg\" height=\"222\" width=\"634\" alt=\"\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">\n<p>    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-d5caeafb7c9e37e4\" src=\"http:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/i\/pix\/2016\/10\/10\/14\/392B61D700000578-3825530-image-a-26_1476106653057.jpg\" height=\"151\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Gemma broke down the argument and said that ultimately, size doesn't matter as long as 'techniques are used'\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Gemma broke down the argument and said that ultimately, size doesn\u2019t matter as long as \u2018techniques are used\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018I avoided further medical intervention at age 9, at which point did start to live as female, and age 16 and even 19\u2026 it is still defined as a micro penis,\u2026 i.e. too small to penetrate a female, and unable to satisfy the needs of a female sexually. \u2013 that is the medical terms! no larger than an enlarged clitoris.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018BUT i have fathered children, and i have a female partner, .. yes it increased in size after SYNTHETIC testosterone medicaation for 10 yrs between age 19 and 29\u2026. our sex life is not conventional, my penis is small\u2026<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018I accept that many women enjoy the normal size penis, and it has always been a issue i have had to deal with .. as a female I did not enjoy penetrative sex with a male.. my vagina has been \u201copened\u201d surgically .. my labia had fused before birth, and i had to dilate to get the muscles to adapt\u2026 so a large penis was painful\u2026\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Finally, Gemma waded into the debate and broke down her answer into simple terms, saying: \u2018I\u2019ve had two partners who were reasonably small\u2026 One worked with it and it never bothered me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018One didn\u2019t and our sex life wasn\u2019t great!<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018I did have an ex who had a really large one though and our sex life was awful. He just didn\u2019t make an effort.\u2019<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s one of the biggest questions among women, and a source of anxiety for men.\u00a0 Does penis size matter?\u00a0\u00a0 A woman ventured to ask the question on Netmums\u00a0\u2013 and was met with a variety of attitudes towards accepting partner\u2019s shortcomings. 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