?6 Things You Need to Know Before Buying a Vibrator
When you think of a vibrator, the first thing that comes to mind is probably a big penis made of plastic. While wand-like vibrators are a classic option (and many women do love them), they can be a little intimidating for a first-time viber.
So how do you know which shape to look for? First, think about how you typically self-pleasure: Are you focusing on the clitoris or the G-spot (or both)? Do you enjoy intense and localized sensations, or do you prefer sensations spread around the vulva? Do you self-pleasure the same way every time, or do you need something that can perform in a variety ways?
“There are four basic types of vibrators,” explains Claire Cavanah, co-founder of Babeland and co-author of Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. “Some work best on the outside, others work best inside. G-spot vibes have a curve on the tip and dual-action vibes have both internal and external components.”
If you like the spread-out sensations on your vulva, Jimmyjane Form 2 ($149, shop.womenshealthmag.com) is an excellent—and totally non-phallic—option. For something more clit-focused, try a bullet vibrator, like the super simple Babeland Buzz Vibe ($12, babeland.com).
What if you have no idea whether you want internal or external stimulation? In this case, go with the internal one. “Generally, we recommend choosing a toy that can be used internally, even if you don’t intend to use it internally,” says Catney. “That’s because internal massagers can be just as effectively used externally, so you’re killing two birds with one stone, and you have a more versatile sex toy.” Just make sure you find one with a girth that feels comfortable.