10 Reasons You’re Stuck In A Life You Don’t Want To Be Living

This is such a big one. If you don’t do what you need to do, you’ll never get what you want. Even if, by some stretch, you prove me wrong and someone hands it all to you, you won’t keep it. While life can throw us curveballs, the truth is most people are not willing to do the work it takes to achieve what they want. We don’t always like to hear it, but the reality is that, if you want something, it is your responsibility to do the research, reach out, ask for advice, sharpen your skills and make the effort. Those who work hard and smart tend to find a version of what they are looking for (or something better) whereas those who stand there with their proverbial hand out spewing out wishes and whining they are unlucky are guaranteed to go nowhere.