7 Things You Should Stop Fighting About Now, According To Couples Therapists

Maybe your battles haven’t reached reality TV-worthy levels, like Rob Kardashian and Blac Chyna, but if you’re in a relationship, chances are you’ve picked a fight. 

“A lot of times we pick fights not because there’s something going on with our relationship, but because something’s going on with us,” says clinical psychologist Rudi Rahbar, Psy.D.

Whether you’re in a bad mood, had a bad day at work, or whatever—there’s something about calling him out on that pile of clothes in the corner that feels so right. But that’s definitely not helping your relationship, says Rahbar. 

To help you fight less and love more, we asked relationship experts for the things that aren’t worth throwing down over. Plus, they break down the right way to address those issues without a screaming match (because you might be a grown-ass woman, but you’re not Gandhi).