Me vs. Fibromyalgia: Part 7 — 4 Relationship Saving Tips for Loved Ones of Chronic Pain Sufferers

Before I truly understood her pain, I would get bothered when she wouldn’t initiate as many conversations or contact me as much. I thought she didn’t have time for me, but now I realize she might not have it in her to talk that day, or that she is experiencing such a bad flare up that she can barely brush her teeth, let alone have a phone conversation. Giving space is just as important as checking in on their well-being.

3. Get educated on their condition.

This one is not solely on the person with chronic pain to educate you on their condition. It’s also our responsibility to learn more about it. My sister sends my family articles and information on Fibromyalgia, but we have also taken it upon ourselves to seek out this information. It enhances our relationship with my sister and allows us to show her we care by truly trying to better understand what she goes through.

4. Relationships may be different, but different can still be good.

In fact, they may become better through communication and empathy.