The 7 Best Sex Positions To Try If You Hate Being On Top

For an alternative that feels just a little naughty, try standing rear entry, where the woman stands with her hands against a wall and the man enters her from behind.

“He approaches from behind and can place his hands on her shoulders, ribs, hips, breasts, clitoris, and vulva, or a combination,” says Eric Marlowe Garrison, a sex counselor from Richmond, Virginia. “For a little BDSM, he can hold one or both arms behind her back.”

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Once you’ve perfected this position, have a bit of fun experimenting. “He is also able to whisper in her ear, bite or lick her neck, run his fingers down her back, pull her hair, or put his fingers in her mouth. She can also spin partially around for a kiss,” Garrison says.