The Sexiest TV Shows Of All Time, According To Sex Therapists

Game of Thrones certainly isn’t short on sex. Snowy sex (Jon Snow losing his virginity brought a tear to our eyes), group sex (So. Many. Orgies.), BDSM-style sex (some of which is not consensual and definitely not okay…), and serve-your-queen sex (Khaleesi always finishes first).”GOT has a lot of kinky sex,” says Stephanie Buehler, Ph.D., director of The Buehler Institute, psychologist and certified sex therapist. “Some people find it hot, and some gross.”

How to bring it home: If you’re into the idea of bringing some of Game of Thrones adventurous eroticism into your own sex life, “start light and see how it goes,” says Beuhler. “If it’s something really new for a couple, blind folds and being bound with silk ties is probably better than a collar, chains, and a whip, for example.” When you’re trying something that pushes your boundaries, it’s also important to communicate. Set ground rules, agree that it’s okay to stop, and debrief the next day. “If no one feels bad, then keep exploring,” says Beuhler. “As long as it’s juicy and fun, it’s all good!”