7 Important Talks All Couples Should Have Before Getting Married

If you’re thinking about getting hitched, there’s a good chance you and your partner have some arguing to do. And we’re not just talking about who takes out the trash, puts the dishes away, or walks Fido at 5 a.m. We’re talking bigger-picture, make-or-break kinds of debates. “It’s impossible for everyone to agree on everything—arguing illustrates an ability to be true to yourself and real with your partner,” says Jane Greer, Ph.D., author of What About Me? Stop Selfishness from Ruining Your Relationship. We asked top relationship experts to share the key convos you should spark up with your partner before you say “I do.”