Kristen Bell Is So Over the Post-Baby Body Conversation

Kristen Bell and husband Dax Shepard welcomed baby daughter Delta this past December, and Kristen says having kids (their other daughter Lincoln is 25 months old) has made the two of them more confident in their relationship. “Now we have a clan that depends on us, and we get a lot of self-esteem from putting our family first,” she told us in an e-mail while on the set of her movie Michelle Darnell, costarring Melissa McCarthy.

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Another thing it sounds like Kristen is totally confident about? How she’s treating her body post-delivery.

“I feel the ‘baby weight’ conversation is a stale one,” says the actress, who’s currently promoting the #WipeForWater campaign with Neutrogena Naturals and The Nature Conservancy. “It’s just been talked into the ground—and does anyone really care that much? Just be healthy, don’t beat yourself up, and have fun with your kid. The only way pressure is lifted is if we choose not to accept it any longer. I think that’s what I chose to do.”

Kristen, we are all kinds of obsessed with that perspective.

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