Love IS the key to helping a depressed partner

Although depression may occur only one time during your life, usually people have multiple episodes of depression. During these episodes, symptoms occur most of the day, nearly every day and may include: 

Feelings of sadness, tearfulness, emptiness or hopelessness. 

Angry outbursts, irritability or frustration, even over small matters. 

Loss of interest or pleasure in most or all normal activities, such as sex, hobbies or sports. 

Sleep disturbances, including insomnia or sleeping too much. 

Tiredness and lack of energy, so even small tasks take extra effort.

Changes in appetite — often reduced appetite and weight loss, but increased cravings for food and weight gain in some people.

Anxiety, agitation or restlessness. 

Slowed thinking, speaking or body movements. 

Feelings of worthlessness or guilt, fixating on past failures or blaming yourself for things that aren’t your responsibility. 

Trouble thinking, concentrating, making decisions and remembering things.

Frequent or recurrent thoughts of death, suicidal thoughts, suicide attempts or suicide.

Unexplained physical problems, such as back pain or headaches. 

Source: Mayoclinic.org