These days, more and more hyper-customized—and pretty pricey—dating apps and services keep popping up. From facial-recognition software to DNA-based compatibility tests, these high-end matchmakers will run you anywhere from $3,500 to a whopping $15,000. Unfortunately, most of us don’t have thousands to blow on personalized love coaching. Here’s some free advice to get the most out of standard online-dating memberships.
1. Reach out to a match on Wednesday, Friday, or over the weekend.
You’ll have about a 50 percent higher chance of getting a response on these days, according to data collected by VirtualDatingAssistants.com.
2. Use words like “you†and “supportive†in your intro message.
A 2012 study claimed that social and outward-focused terms receive more responses than those that are self-involved or leisurely, like “I†and “movies.â€
3. Find out how he likes to spend his time and cash.
Similar tastes in these areas are crucial, says Maria Avgitidis, founder of Agape Match. Ask: “What do you like to do on your days off? What’s a worthy splurge?â€
4. Set the first date 17 to 23 days after initiating contact with him.
This specific window gives you the optimal online courting time before meeting, found a study in the Journal of Computer-Mediated Communication.
To find out what happened when one editor tried out three überpersonal methods of finding a soulmate, and for more dating tips, pick up the April 2015 issue of Women’s Health, on newsstands now.Â
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