By celebrity sexpert Emily Morse for YourTango
If your reaction to the title of this article is, “Multiple orgasms? I’m just trying to have an orgasm period,†you’re not alone. After all, when your orgasms are few and far between, it’s hard to ever imagine having multiple orgasms.
Sure, we’ve all had that super-annoying friend who has no trouble orgasming. You chew on ice (an obvious sign of sexual frustration) and force a smile while she goes on and on at brunch about her boyfriend’s perfect penis and her endless orgasms. You think to yourself, I’m having sex with the wrong people, it’s impossible for me to orgasm like her, or psh, this girl is crazy.
The truth is, almost every woman has the potential to have multiple orgasms—with or without a partner. It’s one of multiple (ha!) reasons it’s great to be a woman. Even though the female orgasm is more difficult to achieve than the male orgasm, once you find your orgasmic groove, you won’t be able to stop!
3 Steps To Having Multiple Orgasms
1. Find Your Happy Place:Â Sexologist Carol Queen explains that many women are sold a fantasy: Someday your prince will come, and then so will you.
Don’t wait for a guy to swoop in and magically give you multiple orgasms. Get an Original Magic Wand—one of the most powerful vibrators ever—and take matters into your own hands. Put on some Marvin Gaye, relax, and get it on with your vibrator.
Play around with a couple of techniques, and see what rubs you the right way. Are you an indirect stimulation kind of girl or a direct clitoral stimulation gal? Try twirling your vibrator in circles, up and down, and on certain sides of your clitoris. Then commit to a move and see it through ’til the end.
Once you have your first orgasm, remove the wand, and take a breather. Your clitoris will probably be too stimulated from the intense vibrations to continue right away. After 30 seconds or so, go in for round two. Because your clitoris is already so stimulated from the vibrator, it probably won’t be long until the second one hits you…and then the third…and the fourth…fifth?!…SIXTH! At a certain point, you’ll need to slowly step away from the vibrator and get back to your everyday life. Don’t worry—there will be many more nights of multiple orgasms to come.
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