My Middle Schooler is Talking About Having Sex


Dear Dr. G.,

Sometimes we wish that my kids wouldn’t tell me so much. On a other hand,I theory I’m propitious that my kids speak to me. we am a unapproachable mom of 3 girls. They are 13, 9 and 6.

Well, hear me out about my latest problem that totally took me by surprise. My 13 year aged center schooler came to me to tell me that some of her friends were carrying sex. When we questioned her about a clarification of sex she pronounced that this essentially refers to verbal sex.

I didn’t ask her if she was concerned in this arrange of sex since we only couldn’t move myself to speak about that. we wish to know what we consider about this form of behavior. Is it unequivocally function in other areas of a country? we live in California. Also, do we consider we should ask my daughter if she has been concerned in such activity. If we do speak to her what on earth should we say?

A Tongue-Tied Mother

Dear Mother,

First, let me contend that we should pat yourself on a behind for formulating a attribute with your daughter that creates her feel gentle opening adult to we about supportive topics. I’m certain that only as it wasn’t easy for we to hear what your daughter was deliberating it was substantially not totally gentle for her either. Nonetheless, it appears that she felt protected that we would not impugn or decider her. Good work!

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