Not Compassionate? It’s OK, You Can Learn It



It’s possible to become a more compassionate person by training your brain, according to a new study.

Researchers from the Center for Investigating Healthy Minds at the University of Wisconson-Madison’s Waisman Center found that engaging in compassion meditation — where you practice feeling compassion for different groups of people, including yourself — seemed to increase a sense of altruism.

“It’s kind of like weight training,” study researcher Helen Weng, a graduate student in clinical psychology at the university, said in a statement. “Using this systematic approach, we found that people can actually build up their compassion ‘muscle’ and respond to others’ suffering with care and a desire to help.”

The study, published in the journal Psychological Science, involved having study participants engage in a compassion meditation where they thought about when others have helped them to relieve their own suffering. They repeated compassion mantras, such as “May you be free from suffering. May you have joy and ease.” And they also completed an exercise where they practiced compassion for groups of people including friends, “difficult people” and themselves.

Meanwhile, another group of study participants serving as the control group just learned a technique called cognitive reappraisal, which is when you reappraise your thoughts so that they are less negative.

Researchers conducted brain scans of both these groups, before and after their trainings.

Then,they compared the altruism of the cognitive reappraisal group with the compassion meditation group by having them all play a game that involved donating money to people in need.

The researchers found that the people who did the compassion training and who had the highest levels of altruism were also the ones who experienced the most brain changes in the inferior parietal cortex (involved in empathy) when exposed to others’ suffering.

“The fact that alterations in brain function were observed after just a total of seven hours of training is remarkable,” study researcher Richard J. Davidson, who is a professor at the university and the founder and chair of the Center for Investigating Healthy Minds, said in a statement.

Of course, it shouldn’t be all too surprising that meditation boosts compassion in the brain. Past research — including a study published earlier this year by Harvard and Northeastern university researchers — shows that meditation can help to boost do-good behavior.

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    In their 2012 book “a href=”http://www.amazon.com/Longevity-Project-Surprising-Discoveries-Eight-Decade/dp/0452297702? target=”_hplink”The Longevity Project/a,” which looked at research over the course of 80 years, authors Howard S. Friedman and Leslie R. Martin identified an association between being conscientious and a longer life span.

    “Conscientiousness, which was the best predictor of longevity when measured in childhood, also turned out to be the best personality predictor of long life when measured in adulthood,” a href=”http://www.amazon.com/Longevity-Project-Surprising-Discoveries-Eight-Decade/dp/0452297702? target=”_hplink”the authors wrote in their book/a. “The young adults who were thrifty, persistent, detail oriented, and responsible lived the longest.”

    Why do more prudent people tend to live longer? According to the authors, this group is more likely to take care of their health and avoid risks, and they also develop healthier relationships, whether it be romantic, friendly or work-related. “That’s right, conscientious people create healthy, long-life pathways for themselves,” Friedman and Martin wrote.

    And finally, the researchers point out that some people seem to have a biological predisposition toward a more careful personality. “While we are not yet sure of the precise physiological reasons,” they write, “it appears that conscientious and un- conscientious people have different levels of certain chemicals in their brains, including serotonin.”

    For more on the phenomenon, and other insights into longevity, a href=”http://www.amazon.com/Longevity-Project-Surprising-Discoveries-Eight-Decade/dp/0452297702? target=”_hplink”check out “The Longevity Project” here/a.

  • Easy To Laugh

    In a study published this past May in the journal emAging/em, researchers from Albert Einstein College of Medicine and Yeshiva University pinpointed several personality traits linked to a longer lifespan. Among the list? Frequent laughter, a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/05/29/optimism-longer-life-longevity-genes-personality_n_1553967.html” target=”_hplink”HuffPost reported when the findings were released/a.

    “When I started working with centenarians, I thought we’d find that they survived so long in part because they were mean and ornery,” study researcher Dr. Nir Barzilai, M.D., director of Einstein’s Institute for Aging Research, a href=”http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2012-05/aeco-gm052412.php” target=”_hplink”said in a statement/a. “But when we assessed the personalities of these 243 centenarians, we found qualities that clearly reflect a positive attitude towards life.”

  • Socially Connected

    Thank your family and friends for this one: a 2010 study published in the journal emPloS Medicine/em found that a href=”http://www.plosmedicine.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pmed.1000316? target=”_hplink”strong social relationships/a can boost survival odds by 50 percent.

    The Brigham Young University and University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill researchers evaluated 148 studies.

    “We take relationships for granted as humans — we’re like fish that don’t notice the water,” BYU’s Timothy Smith a href=”http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/07/100727174909.htm” target=”_hplink”said in a statement about the findings/a. “That constant interaction is not only beneficial psychologically but directly to our physical health.”

  • Optimistic

    The same 2012 emAging/em study that identified frequent laughter as a boost to longevity also found that optimism might tack on years to your life.

    Out of the 243 centenarians evaluated in the research, most were optimistic and easygoing, study researcher Dr. Nir Barzilai, M.D., director of Einstein’s Institute for Aging Research, a href=”http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2012-05/aeco-gm052412.php” target=”_hplink”said in a statement/a.

    “Some evidence indicates that personality can change between the ages of 70 and 100, so we don’t know whether our centenarians have maintained their personality traits across their entire lifespans,” a href=”http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2012-05/aeco-gm052412.php” target=”_hplink”he said in the release/a. “Nevertheless, our findings suggest that centenarians share particular personality traits and that genetically-based aspects of personality may play an important role in achieving both good health and exceptional longevity.”

  • Happy

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    “I was a bit surprised that the happiness effect was so strong, even among people who had chronic diseases,” study author Andrew Steptoe, a professor at University College, London, a href=”http://vitals.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2011/10/31/8565511-want-to-live-longer-get-happy-study-says?ocid=twitter” target=”_hplink”told MSNBC/a.

  • Extroverted

    a href=”http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1532-5415.2009.02189.x/abstract” target=”_hplink”A 2009 study published in the emJournal of the American Geriatrics Society/em/a looked at the offspring of centenarians (other research has found a href=”http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/04/090403114823.htm” target=”_hplink”exceptional longevity tends to run in families/a) — the volunteers were typically in the high range for extroversion (and in the low range for neuroticism).

    “It’s likely that the low neuroticism and higher extroversion will confer health benefits for these subjects,” study author Thomas Perls, M.D., MPH, director of the New England Centenarian Study, a href=”http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/04/090403114823.htm” target=”_hplink”said in a statement /awhen the findings were released. “For example, people who are lower in neuroticism are able to manage or regulate stressful situations more effectively than those with higher neuroticism levels. Similarly, high extroversion levels have been associated with establishing friendships and looking after yourself.”

    The women evaluated in the study also scored high for agreeableness.

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