Pregnant nurse had a stroke a week before her due date


  • Kate Weaver, 29, left unable to speak or walk while 39 weeks pregnant
  • Surgeons agonised over whether to treat stroke – and risk harming baby
  • But Mrs Weaver was treated and gave birth naturally to son Toby
  • She faced a difficult recovery, but she and Toby are now completely healthy

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Miraculous: Kate Weaver, pictured with her newborn son Toby, gave birth while still paralysed

A woman who had stroke a week before her due date gave birth while she was still paralysed.

Nurse Kate Weaver, 29, felt her muscles cramp up while she was shopping – but soon realised it was in fact a stroke.

Mrs Weaver, who was 39 weeks pregnant at the time, was just able to beg to be taken to hospital before she collapsed completely.

She told her husband Tim, 36: ‘We need to go to hospital. It’s not the baby I’m really ill’, then lost the ability to speak.

She was rushed to hospital, where doctors agonised over whether to perform thrombolysis on her – a procedure which would break down the blood clot which caused her stroke.

Although the procedure would help Mrs Weave, experts at the Royal Shrewsbury Hospital in Shropshire feared it could harm her unborn son.

But just three days later, after two hospital transfers and an epidural, Mrs Weaver gave birth to Toby was born at a healthy 6lbs 11oz.

Toby was discharged after a week, and Mrs Weaver joined joined him at their home in Wem, Shropshire a week later.

She then faced a lengthy recovery, during which she had to learn to walk again.

Mrs Weaver, a haematology nurse, said: ‘I can’t describe it how scary having a stroke and knowing that I was about to give birth was – I didn’t think I was going to make it.

Healthy: Mrs Weaver recovered fully from her stroke – which left her unable to walk or speak – and her son is developing normally

‘I thought we would both die so when I heard Toby cry the release of knowing he was alive was incredible.

‘I was very lucky knowing exactly what was happening to me so that we acted quickly.

‘But having so much knowledge made it so much worse because I knew the terminology and I knew what might happen.

‘I’m a nurse and it still shocks me that someone so young could have a stroke.

‘We were out shopping and I knew the signs and I knew straight away what was going on in my body. But if I’d been at home on my own I just don’t know what would have happened.’

Healthy: Toby, pictured left with his father Tim, and right with Mrs Weaver, developed like any other healthy baby

Treatment: Mrs Weaver had to stay in hospital for a week longer than her son, and needed lengthy physiotherapy in order to walk again

Although Kate’s speech returned within four hours of her stroke, she remained partially paralysed and had almost no movement in her left side when she left hospital. Her recovery was difficult, but Toby has developed like any healthy baby.

Mrs Weaver said: ‘There was a risk to him when I was thrombolysed but who knows what would have happened if I hadn’t?

‘It took two months to accept what had happened. For eight weeks I was in total denial about what happened.

‘I kept waking up thinking that the nightmare was going to disappear.

‘But
now, every milestone for Toby is a milestone for me and an extra
feeling of relief that he’s making progress like everyone else and we
can get back to normal.’

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RBB,

Carlisle, United Kingdom,

46 minutes ago

Good luck x

Julie,

London,

1 hour ago

Lovely family, wishing Kate a full recovery. Toby is a real cutie.

redhead,

London, United Kingdom,

2 hours ago

What a cheeky smile – as if he is saying ……………..what me……………….I didn’t do anything …………..

Delboy,

Cheshire, United Kingdom,

2 hours ago

A nice ending to what could have been a sad ending had she not been treated and the correct decision taken happy for them both

Me,

Pottyboro,

2 hours ago

What a lovely little boy, well done Mum! Glad you’ve made a good recovery

Tippex,

London, United Kingdom,

4 hours ago

the NHS gets it right for once .

Macca001,

Victoria BC,

1 hour ago

Prat!

Jo1somewhere,

England,

4 hours ago

Lovely photos, I wish them a long, happy and healthy life.

Rae_mie,

Glasgow, United Kingdom,

4 hours ago

The NHS proving to be world class. Makes me wonder why the Mail needs to celebrate its occasional downfalls with such glee.

Joy,

London, United Kingdom,

2 hours ago

I agree with you. Obviously there are horror stories with the NHS, but my family that of my friend’s have had excellent care. And I’m from the USA where insurance doesn’t always pay for what you need the hospitals there also make mistakes like the NHS.

GKJ,

UK,

2 hours ago

Sadly the downfalls are not “occasional”. While no-one is pleased to read about them they do represent what a lot of people have experienced.

Abigail cardiff,

Cardiff, United Kingdom,

5 hours ago

It’s good to see them both doing so well and showing what a wonderful gift our NHS when it’s allowed to work it’s one of the best in the world ,

Anny,

Bedford, United Kingdom,

5 hours ago

I know of several people in their 30s and early 40s who have had strokes,some while having flue. It is just frightening!

The Sheep,

Down the Farm, United Kingdom,

5 hours ago

Yup, I was 38 when I had my stroke 6 months ago.

nigelm2,

iow, United Kingdom,

1 hour ago

I was 43 I was surprised how many younger people than me were in hospital with a stroke .keep fighting don’t give in .

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