- Ryan James is a male escort based in Sydney and sees women of all ages
- He said that many clients are disappointed by men who climax too quickly
- He has revealed the surprising things women really want in bed
- Said some ladies look for ‘companionship’ and he spends time ‘talking’
- Mr James, who is in hot demand, also said he offers a bit of ‘light bondage’
Lauren Ingram For Daily Mail Australia
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When it comes to what women want in bed, some men are clueless.
However for Sydney-based escort Ryan James, it’s his job to know how to please a woman between the sheets.
Mr James charges from $400 to upwards of $6,000 for his professional services, which can include anything from an hour in a hotel to weekends away.
The perfect night? Ryan James (above) is a Sydney-based escort that sees women of all ages
What women really want: Mr James said that women are often disappointed by men who finish too quickly and don’t focus on them
And unlike with many men who see female escorts, he said that most women aren’t just focused on sex when they’re booking an escort.
‘Pretty much every single client that I see there’s some companionship element to the booking,’ he told Daily Mail Australia.
‘From what I see, men are more focused on the sexual side of things. Women are focused on the sex too, they wouldn’t come to see me without it, but we spend a lot of time talking as well.’
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More than just sex: He says that for every booking, there is an element of companionship as well as sex
Mr James said that most people would be surprised at the range of women he sees as clients.
‘Many of the women I see could easily go to a bar and pick a guy up and have sex that way,’ he explained. ‘But they want a difference experience.
‘Sometimes it’s that they’ve been recently divorced, or they’re still married but haven’t been intimate in a long time. I’ve had clients who are couples who want a threesome, and women who are virgins.’
‘They want a different experience’: He says that most women he sees could pick up men in a bar if they wanted, but don’t like that
He said that there’s a range of ages of the women who see him too. ‘The youngest client I’ve had was 20,’ Mr James explained. ‘It’s rarer for a client to be in their 20s but still happens regularly.’
He said that generally women don’t have specific fantasies they want played out by an escort.
‘Clients say to me that with a lot of sexual encounters they have the guy makes it about him, he comes and then it’s over. They want the focus to be on them. Many do like reciprocating, but they want their pleasure to be in focus,’ the escort explained.
‘They want the focus to be on them’: He says many women do reciprocate, but the focus is on their pleasure
Dinner and a show: Mr James does four hour dinner date experiences as well as 24 hour bookings and weekends away
Whilst he says he does do a little bit of ‘light bondage’ for clients – which he calls the ’50 Shades of Grey’ experience – mostly women need some guidance and don’t know exactly what they want.
‘I do a four hour dinner date experience, that’s quite popular. Or they might book me for a weekend and we’ll get a hotel in the city, see a show at the Opera House.’
Mr James said that there’s definitely still a stigma about women seeing escorts, and that some women are very secretive about it, whilst he’s had others who are very open about paying for sex.
Professional: He compares paying an escort to paying for a professional massage
All ages: He’s seen clients as young as 20, as well as older women who are divorced
‘The way I describe seeing an escort is any girl could go into a bar and ask a guy to go back to hers and get a back massage. A lot of guys would say yes,’ he said.
‘But he’s not a massage therapist. She might enjoy it, but he’s not a professional. If you want a certain sexual experience, it’s much harder to find exactly what you want, but an escort can provide that.’
And he’s in hot demand. Mr James says he’s not taking any new clients at the moment because he’s booked up by his regulars.
‘I had three regulars book seven days worth of work in a eight day period,’ he said. ‘I had a 24 hour job, a 15 hour job and a 5 day job with only one day to rest in between.’
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